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A round-up of 2023

2023 has been a pretty jam-packed year. Here’s some of the things we did:

  • We went to see Cirque du Soleil at the Royal Albert Hall with the Lancaster side
  • Tom and Polly went to Biddulph for one night in honour of Grandad Roger’s birthday (I stayed home with Tabitha so she could go to Naina’s party at a trampoline park)
  • We went to London Zoo with Alison, John and Ava
  • The girls did a pottery taster session in Hammersmith
  • We had various teacher strike days to contend with
  • We watched Polly perform a solo in her year 3 concert (very proud!)
  • We had a wonderful holiday in Barbados over Easter
  • We celebrated Tabitha’s 10th birthday with a party at The Craft House
  • We waved Tabitha off on her three night residential
  • The country celebrated the King’s Coronation
  • Polly had her sleepover at school
  • We went to a spa hotel in Buxton with Nana Margaret
  • We celebrated Polly’s 8th birthday with a horseriding party
  • We went to Clacton (just for the day) for Nanny Pam’s birthday
  • We went to Bedford for Freddie’s 2nd birthday
  • Tabitha and I went to see Take That play in Hyde Park
  • Polly graduated from lower school
  • Tom and Polly went to Wimbledon (and met Nana Margaret and Ros there)
  • We had a long weekend in Edinburgh (travelling up on the sleeper train) staying at Alex’s aunt’s flat again
  • We had a lovely summer holiday in Ibiza
  • Polly started upper school and Tabitha joined year 6. They both survived a sickness bug that wiped out half the school
  • I had a three night break to Iceland with the mums (Tom took the girls to the O2 while I was away)
  • We went to Biddulph for Nana Margaret’s birthday
  • We went to Frome for one night for Jill’s internment (Nanny Pam came with us making it a little holiday). It was here that Tabitha asked the question about Santa
  • We applied for Tabitha’s secondary school
  • We went to the Birch hotel in Selsden for two nights with the Bihlers
  • I went to the Chanel exhibition at the V&A with Gemma
  • We went to see the Back to the Future musical for my birthday
  • Tom and I went to three gigs throughout the year (Roisin Murphy, Goldfrapp and Madonna)
  • We will finish the year with trips to Clacton and Biddulph as usual

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2023 – My writing year in review

I definitely feel like I’ve had more lows than highs this year in my writing journey. In early February I gave notice to my agent and parted ways with them after two years in May. There were several reasons for me making this decision, but mostly it was due to a lack of communication around the submission of my picture books. It’s over six months on now, and I often wonder how things would have panned out if I’d stayed with them, however I do not regret the decision and am in no immediate rush to find myself a new agent. Since becoming unagented I have submitted my manuscripts to multiple publishers with very little response (just the odd ‘no thank you’ here and there); I have entered multiple competitions (spending far too much on entry money) and have gotten absolutely no where; and I have submitted my work to multiple magazines and journals and gotten – yep you guessed it – absolutely no where. So, yes, it’s been quite the year really and I have thought more than once whether I should continue to put myself through this heartache, but I am not ready to give up yet (I don’t think I’ll ever be!).

There have been a few celebration-worthy moments throughout 2023 though, and here they are:

  • Received contributor copies of Parakeet magazine with my Buddy poem in
  • Had a final commission through my agent of three pop-out board books for Out of the Box Books
  • These (and the squeaky books I did) went into Out of the Box Books’ spring catalogue (although none of them are availabe to buy or pre-order still as far as I can see)
  • Over the course of the year I had six new poems published on The Dirigible Balloon website
  • I was a finalist in Susanna Leonard Hill’s Valentiny contest coming 12th overall
  • The book I wrote for Mayo Clinic Press called The Perfect One went online for pre-order, with a release date in the USA of Feb 6th 2024 (and a few months later in the UK)
  • I was accepted onto the Madness Poetry Challenge and made it to round two
  • Three of the hand puppet books I wrote for Imagine That were released into the wild, meaning my name was on the (back) cover of proper published books for the very first time
  • I released two more editions of The Toy magazine, the latest of which includes one of my stories. Whilst it won’t be financially viable to continue with this project long-term, I am pleased with how well received it has been
  • I made it onto the Northern Gravy longlist (again)
  • And finally… perhaps the most exciting of all – I have a Zoom call lined up in January to chat with a small publisher about one of my stories. That tiny glimmer of hope will carry me nicely into 2024.

**UPDATE 16.12.2023 – I obviously hit ‘publish’ on this post too soon before the end of the year as I have had a couple of exciting emails since then regarding two of my stories! Perhaps 2023 wasn’t such a bad writing year after all!

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What we did this Summer

We have FINALLY reached the last day of the long, eight week summer holiday! It has been a summer of extreme babyishness from Polly and endless bickering between the two of them, but it has also been lots of fun and I’ve mostly enjoyed having them around. Here’s what we got up to:

WEEK ONE:

-We kicked off the holidays with a bang by having Olivia to sleep round (while Tabitha slept at Jac’s).

-Tom and Polly spent the day at Wimbledon (with Ros and Margaret) while Tabitha had Tommy round for a playdate followed by a long cycle to and from Richmond Park for horseriding. Ros and Margaret slept over and we had lunch at the Hare and Hounds the following day.

-During the week we went for a swim in Putney, played at Mortlake Green (with Sophie and Noor), went to the Wetlands, and went to Dukes Meadows (where Polly met her birthday twin).

WEEK TWO:

-We caught the sleeper train to Edinburgh and spent two nights at Alex’s aunt and uncle’s flat. We went to Portobello Beach on the Friday and then to Jupiter Artland on the Saturday (Mi mi mi mi meeeee).

-We went to see Barbie at the cinema.

-The girls did a couple of youth club sessions.

-The girls did a day-long forest school in Holland Park while I wandered around the Museum of Brands.

WEEK THREE:

-Matt, Margaret, Ishya and Emmeline came to sleep over. We had lunch at the Hare and Hounds on the Saturday and then the on Sunday they all went to the Natural History Museum.

-We did a week of swimming lessons at Putney Leisure Centre and the girls did some youth club sessions in the afternoons.

WEEK FOUR:

-We had a weekend of extreme hosting with the D’haenes to ours on the Saturday and then the Cotterells on Sunday.

-On the Monday we collected Nanny Pam from Waterloo station and the girls enjoyed an afternoon with her before we left for Ibiza on Tuesday morning.

-We spent the first three nights in Portinatx which was a lovely little bay in the north of the island.

WEEK FIVE:

-Still in Ibiza, we moved down the coast to Santa Eulalia where we spent four nights. The girls enjoyed playing with all the kids by the pool and we took a ferry to Formentera island.

-We then spent two nights in Ibiza Town next to the very impressive Old Town. We spent a day at a waterpark over on the west of the island and got bitten to shreds at a beach club on the south.

WEEK SIX:

-We saw Nanny Pam off at the station and then went to the Hayward Gallery and had noodles.

-The Bihlers were finally back from Mexico and Austria so we caught up with them at the green and then Polly went for a playdate at Olivia’s (I tried to take Tabitha to Go Ape but it was fully booked so we ended up doing mini golf!).

-Tabitha went for a playdate at Naina’s.

-The girls did a day-long art camp with Carla which included street dancing and drama.

WEEK SEVEN:

-We went to the dentist and for lunch at 222 in West Kensington. We then walked to Chelsea where the girls and Tom did Clip n Climb. We then finished with a drink at the Bluebird before getting a cab home.

-We had another weekend of full-on hosting with the Bihlers on Saturday and Ritu and Naina on Sunday.

-On Bank Holiday Monday we went to see Elemental at the cinema and had lunch at The Crossing.

WEEK EIGHT (Yes it is STILL the holidays!!):

-The girls did horseriding in Richmond Park (while Tom enjoyed some skateboarding in the car park!).

-We went to the collectors fair and had lunch in Cote.

-We went to a gallery in Vauxhall followed by lunch and Vauxhall City Farm. We then rode the Thames Clipper along the river to Putney.

-We spent the afternoon at Duke’s Meadows with Jac and Olivia.

-We went to Battersea Children’s Zoo.

And so begins another school year. Year 4 for Polly – first year in Upper School – and Year 6 – final year in primary – for Tabitha!

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Gratitude diary – final 65

  1. Grateful to catch a glimpse of the moon
  2. Grateful for Friday lunch at The Plough
  3. Grateful to try iceskating at Bayswater followed by fireworks at RPA
  4. Grateful Polly got to spend the day with Olivia
  5. Grateful to Delia for putting me in touch with Folly Farm
  6. Grateful to spend the day getting the house tidy
  7. Grateful to take Tabitha to Putney for Jamie and Monty’s cinema trip
  8. Grateful to pick up my library book
  9. Grateful for a lovely full moon
  10. Grateful to hear Joe ‘Don’t Wanna be a Player’ at the start of Bodytone
  11. Grateful to be accepted by Buzgaga for their Letters to Santa book
  12. Grateful to see Polly in her Charlie and the Chocolate Factory assembly
  13. Grateful to take the girls horseriding after a long break (and for it to be gloriously warm and sunny for it)
  14. Grateful Tabitha bumped into Ela at Palewell Park
  15. Grateful to find a Steiff bear in the charity shop
  16. Grateful to spend the day tackling Polly’s room and taking LOADS to charity
  17. Grateful to wake up to a poetry acceptance from Parakeet Magazine
  18. Grateful to order Letters to Santa off Amazon
  19. Grateful for the last day of being 42
  20. Grateful for a lovely day – lunch and then Winter Wonderland for my birthday
  21. Grateful the lady on the next table brought me a glass of prosecco
  22. Grateful for a big long walk to burn off some birthday calories
  23. Grateful to buy new PJs
  24. Grateful to get a few local sales after announcing The Toy on Whatsapp
  25. Grateful for low winter sun in Richmond Park
  26. Grateful to get my blog up to date
  27. Grateful to get a bit ship shape ahead of Tom’s birthday
  28. Grateful for a nice outing in town for Tom’s birthday – lunch at Duck Soup followed by a panto with the girls in the evening
  29. Grateful Amy and Sofia came to Tom’s party
  30. Grateful to not leave the house all day while nursing a massive hangover
  31. Grateful new TV arrived
  32. Grateful Tabitha took her Grade 1 piano exam in Barnes
  33. Grateful to receive an honourable mention in the NYC midnight rhyming challenge (but gutted I missed out on the next round)
  34. Grateful to receive an honourable mention for my Halloweensie entry
  35. Grateful to get a new commission from CWLA (The Perfect One)
  36. Grateful to see Tabitha get star of the week and her pen licence in assembly plus learn that she passed her piano exam with merit
  37. Grateful to have Ros, Darren and Freddie visit
  38. Grateful to go to Tabitha’s watching week at gymnastics
  39. Grateful to see the Thomson House carol concert at the church
  40. Grateful to hear and see the parakeets
  41. Grateful for a sunny (but cold) walk to Barnes to hand deliver a copy of The Toy
  42. Grateful to watch all of the Harry & Meghan documentary (so far)
  43. Grateful to go to Polly’s singing assembly
  44. Grateful to watch the England match with the girls (despite them losing)
  45. Grateful to get seven sales at the East Sheen Christmas Market (better than nothing)
  46. Grateful the girls got to play in the snow before school
  47. Grateful to receive a photo of The Toy on display at Folly Farm
  48. Grateful to have my hair done without worrying about my mole
  49. Grateful for final exercise class before the girls break up
  50. Grateful to be paid for first two squeaky books
  51. Grateful for a dry, crisp day to drive to Clacton
  52. Grateful to get home safely despite the rain
  53. Grateful the girls enjoyed a long session at youth club
  54. Grateful for more free time while the girls were at youth club and Tom at the office
  55. Grateful to get out for a run while the girls were at art club
  56. Grateful to hand deliver two more copies of The Toy
  57. Grateful to get a group of friends together for Christmas drinks at the Hare & Hounds
  58. Grateful to look after Henri for the afternoon while the Bihlers went to the roller disco
  59. Grateful to chat with Gemma over a glass of red wine
  60. Grateful for a sliver of moon and a sky full of stars
  61. Grateful for a lie-in while Tom got up with Polly
  62. Grateful the girls got to spend time with their cousins (but also grateful they didn’t end up staying over)
  63. Grateful to see Mars and Jupiter in the night sky
  64. Grateful to be back in London
  65. Grateful my year of gratitude has come to and end!
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A round-up of 2022

In 2022 we:

  • celebrated Amy’s 30th with a family meal in Coggleshall
  • all had Covid for the first time
  • celebrated Dad’s 80th with a family meal in Chelmsford
  • went to New York
  • celebrated Tabitha’s 9th birthday
  • watched Tabitha perform at the O2
  • went to Bath (me and Tom) for our 10th wedding anniversary
  • celebrated Freddie’s 1st birthday in Bedford
  • celebrated Polly’s 7th birthday
  • waved Tabitha off on her first camping trip with school
  • went to Tuscany (and survived nearly 40 degree heat)
  • had three weeks’ worth of swimming lessons in Putney
  • went up north for a visit to Matt & Priti’s and then Nana Margaret’s
  • celebrated Adam’s 21st with a family gathering in Clacton
  • glamped for two nights
  • went to see Gary Barlow ‘A Different Stage’ at the theatre (Tom and I)
  • watched the Queen’s hearse pass by in Chiswick
  • went to Venice (Tom, the girls and Nana Margaret). I almost went to Venice.
  • went to Winter Wonderland for my birthday
  • celebrated Tom’s birthday with a panto and a party at The Crossing
  • passed grade 1 piano (Tabitha)

Things to look forward to so far in 2023:

  • Cirque du Soleil
  • Going to Barbados at Easter
  • Tabitha’s 3 night residential
  • Going to see Take That in Hyde Park
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2022 – My writing year in review

Back at the end of June, I wrote a post about what I’d achieved in my writing for the first six months of the year. Well it’s already time to update that list with my accomplishments for the second half of the year!

Unfortunately, the news I was eagerly hoping for at the time never came to anything and so I am still waiting (not so) patiently for that ever-elusive first publishing contract.

Here’s a reminder of what I achieved in the first six months of 2022:

-At the start of 2022 I decided to focus my efforts on children’s poetry, with the aim of getting some writing published. So far, I have had poems accepted by The Dirigible Balloon, Caterpillar Magazine, Tyger Tyger, PaperBound Magazine, Little Thoughts Press and a short story included in Glittery Literary’s anthology.

-My short story won me first place in Glittery Literary’s competition and my poem in PaperBound Magazine was the issue’s runner-up (second only to the cover art)!

-I’ve had a couple of posts featured on Salariya’s blog, one of which – The Twelve Rungs of a Picture Book Writer’s Ladder – was very well received by the writing community.

-I achieved an honourable mention in the Kids’ Choice Contest, which is one of the few contests I have actually entered this year (because being agented often disqualifies you).

-I was asked to write my ‘How I Got My Agent’ story for the Children’s Writers Group on Facebook.

-In March I went and spoke to both Tabitha and Polly’s year groups about being a writer (for World Book Day). Speaking at schools is the part of being an author that I’m most nervous about, so I really wanted to do this as a practice run to know that I could! I’m proud of myself for actually doing it!

-Having had a few poems accepted inspired me to set up my own children’s literary magazine, which is called The Toy. Without giving it too much deliberation, I threw myself into this project head first and edition one is now filled and ready to be released in August. Fingers crossed it is successful.

-I have become a mentor for a fellow picture book writer through the WriteMentor summer programme. I selected her out of over 100 applicants, which made me the mentor with the highest amount of applications.

-I was commissioned through my agent to come up with ideas for and write a set of board books which hopefully should be out in the world in the not too distant future. This was (when I actually get the money) my first paid writing gig. On the back of this, I was also commisioned to write a picture book text from a set brief for the same client.

– Had an exciting zoom meeting with a US publishers which sadly didn’t go any further (the company are being brought out and are not signing any new authors, otherwise I think the news would have been different).

And here’s what I went onto achieve in the latter half of the year:

– I finally received payment for my hand puppet books and picture book commission (making me a fully-fledged paid author!)

– I used the money from this to launch The Toy magazine – the first two editions are now available to buy, with a third in the pipeline for the new year. I’ve yet to cover all of my costs for the first two editions, but it is not doing too badly.

– I was commissioned to write another two interactive board books for a different publisher

– Two out of the four hand puppet books (Shark and Croc) became available to pre-order on websites such as Waterstones and Barnes & Noble, meaning my name is on these sites for the first time ever! The four hand puppet books along with the picture book is also featured in Imagine That’s 2023 catalogue.

– I had a poem accepted by Buzgaga for their ‘Letters to Santa’ book which is now available to buy on Amazon.

– I had a poem accepted into Parakeet Magazine which comes out in the new year.

– I received an honourable mention in the NYC Midnight Rhyming Challenge (which considering the genre I was assigned was horror wasn’t bad going!)

– I received an honourable mention in the Halloweensie contest.

– I have just had a new commission from my agent for another picture book (different publisher), aswell as two more interactive board books.

So there we go. I don’t think that’s too bad going for a list of achievements over the course of one year. Yet I STILL feel like I’m failing as a writer because I haven’t received a publishing deal of my own. The writing commissions I’ve been assigned are amazing, but they are not really MY books (even though my name will appear on at least some of them). I won’t receive any royalties from them, nor will I be expected to promote them with school visits/book signings etc. And so as we head into 2023, my ultimate writing goal still remains the same as it has been for the past four-and-a-half years. Fingers crossed next year will be the year it finally happens.

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Gratitude diary – next 100

I am still going strong with my daily gratitude diary (although I will be grateful when it comes to an end!). Here’s the next 100:

  1. Grateful to tackle Polly’s messy bedroom
  2. Grateful to tackle Tabitha’s messy bedroom
  3. Grateful to have had swimming to fill up each weekday morning for the past three weeks
  4. Grateful that the final bit of scab came off my head (where I’d had a mole removed)
  5. Grateful to get commissioned for two squeaky board books
  6. Grateful to finally have a hair cut after almost a year (due to afforementioned mole)
  7. Grateful to the young guy at the park who climbed up a tree to rescue Tabitha’s plane and Arnaud’s ball
  8. Grateful for Sunday lunch at The White Hart
  9. Grateful for a nice afternoon/evening with the Cotterells
  10. Grateful Polly stayed at youth club the whole three hours
  11. Grateful to see Tom from stay and play at the youth club
  12. Grateful the girls were allowed to go to the art session at youth club meaning I could go for a run
  13. Grateful Tom Cotterell took the girls to soft play
  14. Grateful to finish reading my book finally
  15. Grateful to get the girls new school shoes and PE trainers
  16. Grateful for a nice afternoon in Colchester Castle Park
  17. Grateful for a nice afternoon on Clacton Pier
  18. Grateful the girls had so much fun with the other kids at our glamping site
  19. Grateful I didn’t have to get up for a wee in the middle of the night
  20. Grateful to have a lovely afternnon with family for Adam’s 21st
  21. Grateful to hear Gemma got the all clear at her hospital appointment
  22. Grateful to get Buddy back home
  23. Grateful to hand-deliver a few copies of The Toy locally
  24. Grateful to laugh and cry along with Gary Barlow at his stage show
  25. Grateful to solve a Rubik’s Cube for the first time ever (with step-by-step instructions from YouTube)
  26. Grateful to have an impromptu meet-up at the green that turned into a booze-athon
  27. Grateful to get stuck into my next book
  28. Grateful to Jo for having the girls for a couple of hours in the afternoon
  29. Grateful to get the girls bathed and hairwashed ready for school
  30. Grateful the girls went back to school
  31. Grateful for the Queen (RIP)
  32. Grateful to get back to Friday LBT
  33. Grateful to take the girls to Harrods and see how happy the Steiff section made Polly
  34. Grateful Tabitha got to cycle round the green with Jamie and Emilie
  35. Grateful to get my doctors follow-up (for mole) out of the way
  36. Grateful to get the hygenist out of the way
  37. Grateful to start on a new PB
  38. Grateful Tabitha had a playdate with Laila
  39. Grateful to have an ad for The Toy on East Sheen Village Inst
  40. Grateful for a nice catch-up with the Mortlake massive crew
  41. Grateful Polly ran into Esme at the park and had a nice play
  42. Grateful to get a good view of the Queen’s hearse go by in Chiswick
  43. Grateful to finally get my two squeaky books approved and the invoices sent
  44. Grateful to reach 1000 followers on The Toy
  45. Grateful to have a tour of Richmond Park Academy
  46. Grateful that a Jamie and Sam playdate didn’t come with pleas of a sleepover
  47. Grateful to go swimming in Richmond
  48. Grateful to make good headway with the midnight rhyming challenge
  49. Grateful to get a poster of The Toy printed and put up in The Robin
  50. Grateful to submit the final-final version of my rhyming challenge
  51. Grateful to have an interview featured on Little Thoughts Press blog
  52. Grateful to make a start on laying out the second edition
  53. Grateful to have the house to myself
  54. Grateful to write a poem about Buddy
  55. Grateful my plastic poem will be on The Dirigible Balloon next week
  56. Grateful to get the girls haircuts
  57. Grateful to get to the final collectors’ fair of the year
  58. Grateful for a sunny afternoon at Thomson House’s fun day (and to get Tabitha a new jumper and cardie)
  59. Grateful for Robbie evening on TV
  60. Grateful for an impromptu gathering on the green
  61. Grateful to sleep the whole night without waking once
  62. Grateful to start sending out some yeses for the second edition of The Toy
  63. Grateful to send a submission to Parakeet Magazine
  64. Grateful to share a selection of poems from The Toy for National Poetry Day
  65. Grateful to watch Tabitha’s harvest assembly
  66. Grateful to spend the day one on one with Tabitha, including a cycle ride to Kew Bridge park
  67. Grateful Polly and Olivia had fun skating round the green together
  68. Grateful Tom went to the office
  69. Grateful to chat to Ela’s mum in the park
  70. Grateful to learn Tabitha has been put in maths challenge group
  71. Grateful for Tabitha’s lovely leaf art work she did in art club
  72. Grateful Tabitha brought home a sample 11+ Latimer exam to work through
  73. Grateful to see an Instagram callout for stalls at the East Sheen Market this Saturday
  74. Grateful to watch Polly’s harvest assembly
  75. Grateful to get an email from Anna Lazowski about my story submission
  76. Grateful to find a lost toy outside Boots and reunite it with its owner
  77. Grateful to sell some copies of The Toy at East Sheen market
  78. Grateful Jo took Polly to the roller disco
  79. Grateful me and Tom had Sunday lunch with Tabitha
  80. Grateful to get Buddy to and from her nail trim
  81. Grateful to email pdf proofs to the edition 2 contributors
  82. Grateful to get the living room lights done
  83. Grateful to see my board books and picture book in Imagine That’s 2023 catalogue
  84. Grateful to announce board books on social media
  85. Grateful to go to Go Ape and see the new Battersea Powerstation development
  86. Grateful to get home and have Buddy returned after not getting on the flight to Venice
  87. Grateful to get out for a run in between rainfall
  88. Grateful to start on my next reading book
  89. Grateful to go to LBT
  90. Grateful to get the family back
  91. Grateful to take the girls swimming and for a look around the shops in Putney
  92. Grateful to get the girls their Polio jab
  93. Grateful to take the girls to soft play
  94. Grateful to go to Clip n Climb and then have lunch at Bluebird
  95. Grateful to get a last minute Halloweensie entry in
  96. Grateful the rain eventually stopped so the kids could enjoy trick or treating
  97. Grateful to receive the second issue of The Toy from the printers
  98. Grateful to Tom for getting it online
  99. Grateful Polly had Isabella and Olivia to play with in the park after school
  100. Grateful to Delia for ordering five extra copies
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Summer 2022

This year the girls have had exactly eight weeks off school, but we have been so busy and had things to do nearly every day, so (as always) the weeks have flown by!

My mum arrived the day the girls broke up and they had a day-and-a-half of Nanny Pam time before we set off on our Tuscany tour (while mum very kindly looked after Buddy). Italy was SO hot, but then again so was the UK at the time. Mum had to suffer 40 degree heat while she was staying at ours. In Italy we spent three nights by the beach in Viareggio, two nights in Lucca, three nights by a pool near Pistoia, two nights in Florence and one night in Pisa before flying back home. It was actually a really successful holiday all in all (and the first one without any Covid restrictions whatsoever, which was a relief). On our return, the girls had another full day with Nanny Pam as there was a train strike on the day she was due to leave.

For the following three weeks, the girls enjoyed having swimming lessons each morning at Putney Leisure Centre. They had both come on so much while we were on holiday (especially Polly), so we wanted to keep up the momentum on our return. It was lovely to see how much they both improved (and enjoyed themselves) over the three weeks. Most days we spent a little bit of time in the pool between their lessons when Tabitha loved diving off the high-up diving boards!

Also in these middle weeks, the girls spent quite a bit of time going to the various youth club sessions, which enabled me to fit in a bit of gym time here and there.

We spent a long weekend up north, staying one night at Matt and Priti’s, and two nights at Margaret’s. Then at the end of the holidays we went to Essex (to coincide with Adam’s 21st birthday), spending one night at a hotel in Colchester and two nights glamping in StOsyth!

We entertained quite a bit over the holidays too, with visits from the Birchalls, the Bihlers, the D’haenes and the Cotterells.

The holidays ended with a trip to the theatre to see Gary Barlow for me and Tom, and an impromptu boozy park meet-up to see out the summer!

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Gratitude diary – next 100

  1. Grateful to drink Rose wine in the garden at Peter and Sarah’s
  2. Grateful the rain eventually stopped so we could enjoy the collectors’ fayre
  3. Grateful to see the signets
  4. Grateful for homemade wordsearches at The White Hart
  5. Grateful the camera still works after Tabitha landed in a muddy puddle with it!
  6. Grateful for peace
  7. Grateful to wake up to an email from a US publisher
  8. Grateful to get the fly out of my eye (after several hours)
  9. Grateful tp try the Thursday morning fitness class
  10. Grateful to watch Polly’s assembly and that she did well with her lines
  11. Grateful to speak with the US publisher via Zoom
  12. Grateful for a successful party for Polly (despite the cake meltdown at the end)
  13. Grateful for Rose wine at The Ship
  14. Grateful to speak to Mum on her birthday
  15. Grateful to be accepted into Little Thoughts Press
  16. Grateful to send more manuscripts to Anna
  17. Grateful to spend time at both sports days and also help with swimming
  18. Grateful to receive an email from Anna requesting changes
  19. Grateful to spend the afternoon in the hot park on Polly’s birthday
  20. Grateful Tabitha went on her camping trip
  21. Grateful to email new draft to Anna
  22. Grateful for the safe and happy return of Tabitha after he camping trip
  23. Grateful to start putting together the first edition of The Toy
  24. Grateful for a nice trip to the toy shop in Putney
  25. Grateful to take Bud to get her nails trimmed
  26. Grateful that PaperBound Mag was released and I was chosen as their runner up!
  27. Grateful Tabitha got to 200 house points
  28. Grateful to finish going through The Toy submissions and emailing all the ‘no’s
  29. Grateful to visit Gemma and see that she is doing well
  30. Grateful to spend the morning in Richmond Park with Year 4
  31. Grateful for sushi on the green
  32. Grateful for lunch at The White Hart
  33. Grateful to get to Bedford for Freddie’s birthday despite there being a train strike
  34. Grateful to get back to Bud
  35. Grateful to feel far less tired after feeling like a zombie all of yesterday
  36. Grateful to remember my sonnet poem, rewrite it, and submit it with others to Northern Gravy
  37. Grateful to walk Polly’s class to assembly to see a gold medalist
  38. Grateful the girls are both very pleased with their new classes
  39. Grateful to see Tabitha get her 200 house points badge in assembly
  40. Grateful to come away with a good haul from Mortlake Fair
  41. Grateful that the boy in a wheelchair who went missing from the fair was eventually located before nightfall
  42. Grateful to get Tabitha to Kiki’s party on time after mis-calculating the walk from the station!
  43. Grateful Polly had her hair cut into a long bob (and Tabitha had a big chunk off too)
  44. Grateful that Imagine That requested me for another commission (although it clashed with hols), and to learn that I will receive payment next Friday
  45. Grateful to help out with the whole school photo
  46. Grateful to start sending out proofs to contributors
  47. Grateful to finally have the warty thing removed from my head
  48. Grateful that Boris is finally stepping down as PM
  49. Grateful to watch the British wheelchair player win on Court 1 at Wimbledon
  50. Grateful to chase and receive a positive update from Anna
  51. Grateful for the forest school at Hampton Court Flower Show
  52. Grateful to spend most of the day in bed after feeling very tired and achy
  53. Grateful to wake up feeling much better
  54. Grateful for wonderful school reports
  55. Grateful to watch the Oliver concert at school
  56. Grateful that Nanny Pam got here
  57. Grateful to have had Buddy for 10 whole years!
  58. Grateful that Maverick replied to me even though it was a ‘no’
  59. Grateful our plane took off after a 3 hour delay
  60. Grateful for a shaded gazebo on the beach
  61. Grateful to see the sunset from our hotel roof
  62. Grateful yo see the girls enjoying the sea so much
  63. Grateful to be able to give 20 euros to a homeless girl in Viareggio
  64. Grateful for a fun quadricycle ride round the city walls of Lucca
  65. Grateful for aircon
  66. Grateful that Steiff Linda was rescued by the embroidery shop keeper
  67. Grateful for a comfortable taxi ride to our next accommodation
  68. Grateful the girls found a friend to play with in the pool
  69. Grateful for cat lap cuddles
  70. Grateful Tabitha’s penguin toy was rescued from the laundry
  71. Grateful Polly did her first bit of swimming unaided
  72. Grateful to finally get paid for my puppet book commission
  73. Grateful for a rooftop bar overlooking Florence
  74. Grateful for an hour in the rooftop jacuzzi
  75. Grateful to be longlisted for Northern Gravy
  76. Grateful to see and climb the Leaning Tower of Pisa
  77. Grateful to get home from Italy in one piece
  78. Grateful the girls got to spend more time with Nanny Pam
  79. Grateful mum got home safely
  80. Grateful to see Tom’s office and get some lunch in town
  81. Grateful to get the dentist out of the way
  82. Grateful to have the Birchalls round for drinks
  83. Grateful to watch the England women’s team win the Euros
  84. Grateful the girls had their first swimming lesson at Putney
  85. Grateful to receive first printed copies of The Toy
  86. Grateful to Tom for setting up The Toy’s online shop so I can start selling
  87. Grateful to post contributor copies and get my first sales!
  88. Grateful that first contributor copies started arriving
  89. Grateful for a nice afternoon at the Barbican despite our show being cancelled last minute
  90. Grateful to have the Bihlers round for a long-overdue catch up
  91. Grateful to get Buddy a new seed dish that can sit higher up
  92. Grateful to have not hurt myself even more than I did after falling over in the night
  93. Grateful Tom got to come to the swimming pool
  94. Grateful to see two red admirals dancing
  95. Grateful to see Tabitha jump from the highest dive board (after she mastered the middle one yesterday)
  96. Grateful to see the bright Supermoon above the rooftops
  97. Grateful to have finally completed on 18 Silverdale Court
  98. Grateful to have nice enough weather to be able to sit out in the garden at Spring House
  99. Grateful the girls got to try archery at The Grange
  100. Grateful to get home from the north in enough time to catch the post!
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2022 – half way through review

We’re now half way through the year that is 2022 – six months down, six months to go. I am currently on tenterhooks waiting for a response about a potential opportunity, and it’s making me feel quite anxious and downbeat, so I thought it might be worthwhile (for my mental wellbeing) to reflect on what I’ve achieved so far this year:

-At the start of 2022 I decided to focus my efforts on children’s poetry, with the aim of getting some writing published. So far, I have had poems accepted by The Dirigible Balloon, Caterpillar Magazine, Tyger Tyger, PaperBound Magazine, Little Thoughts Press and a short story included in Glittery Literary’s anthology.

-My short story won me first place in Glittery Literary’s competition and my poem in PaperBound Magazine was the issue’s runner-up (second only to the cover art)!

-I’ve had a couple of posts featured on Salariya’s blog, one of which – The Twelve Rungs of a Picture Book Writer’s Ladder – was very well received by the writing community.

-I achieved an honourable mention in the Kids’ Choice Contest, which is one of the few contests I have actually entered this year (because being agented often disqualifies you).

-I was asked to write my ‘How I Got My Agent’ story for the Children’s Writers Group on Facebook.

-In March I went and spoke to both Tabitha and Polly’s year groups about being a writer (for World Book Day). Speaking at schools is the part of being an author that I’m most nervous about, so I really wanted to do this as a practice run to know that I could! I’m proud of myself for actually doing it!

-Having had a few poems accepted inspired me to set up my own children’s literary magazine, which is called The Toy. Without giving it too much deliberation, I threw myself into this project head first and edition one is now filled and ready to be released in August. Fingers crossed it is successful.

-I have become a mentor for a fellow picture book writer through the WriteMentor summer programme. I selected her out of over 100 applicants, which made me the mentor with the highest amount of applications.

-I was commissioned through my agent to come up with ideas for and write a set of board books which hopefully should be out in the world in the not too distant future. This was (when I actually get the money) my first paid writing gig. On the back of this, I was also commisioned to write a picture book text from a set brief for the same client.

Writing all this down does make me feel somewhat happier about what i’ve achieved in my writing career recently, yet my goal of signing an actual real-life publishing contract still feels as elusive as ever. Being a writer is such a mix of highs and lows that I sometimes wonder if it’s worth the stress!

Over the next six months I’d like to switch my focus back to writing stories again (rather than poems). It’s been nice to have a bit of a break and do something slightly different though. I’m also going to continue to pour all my efforts into getting The Toy up and running, with the aim of releasing edition two by Christmas and maybe getting a tote bag on sale too.